* implement native sqlite support as a feature flag following [1]
([1] is mentioned as a checklist of sorts as to how to add a new
feature flag in [2])
[1] 13f65f05ae
[2] https://github.com/babashka/babashka/blob/master/doc/build.md
* bump to latest sqlite-jdbc, remove some no longer needed config+libs
based on feedback from borkdude here [1], bump xerial/sqlite-jdbc
3.36.0.3, which includes the graalvm classes and resource config
previously implemented via ericdallo/sqlite-jni-graal-fix and a `-H`
flag in `script/compile`
[1]: https://github.com/babashka/babashka/pull/1079#issuecomment-980533178
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